I'm going through this right now. Its frusterating and upseting as heck.
We haven't gone that long, more like a month or two. Makes you feel worthless and ugly and unwanted, I know. And then you feel like going to someone else, with me its not even really the sex its just feeling like I'm WANTED. Uhg. :/
With my husband he says he doesn't feel comfortable with his body, he's gained a good bit of weight over the last year or two and it affects him a lot mentally I think. But it still hurts when I try EVERYTHING I can to 'seduce' him or what not and he says not tonight. I actually spent the majority of last night crying because of it. If you want, PM me, would be nice to talk to someone going through this too. I really don't have too much advice for you, other then to not to assume its your fault or anything, it could legitly be him medically or mentally not being able to. Best of luck to you love!
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