Originally Posted by
Fry
Because what happened in those memories had an impact on you, they are bound to resurface. It's not a choice whether they do or not, though it would be nice if it was. The memories won't just vanish without a trace. But when they do resurface in whatever form that may take, it'll be possible to work through the current effects of the past so that they won't negatively effect you so much in the future.
I've never actually thought about it that way, thank you.
And thank you, everyone for your responses.
hidingme, yeah, I definitely feel the same way. I don't know, I hear that once you get passed the first time talking about it, it gets easier from then on out. I'm hoping that will be true in my case!