What i've discovered recently is just because you have X doesn't mean you suddenly will struggle with XYZ. So just because we have BPD doesn't mean we all struggle with relationships, anger or impulsiveness. There are 9 criteria, and each of us tick different boxes.
Rather than trying to treat BPD as a thing, think of it as your collection of behaviours and responses, some of which are maladaptive and need to be reviewed.
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