The reason I use the term self harmer is because I use various types of self harm but one in particular is quite rare and I doubt people would know what I meant if i said it as in a ********er Also I am ashamed of my particular form of self harm and if someone asks me if I hurt myself I say yes but I do not publicize the fact or define myself it ( or at least try not to)
The only time I am descriptive/explain what has happened is to drs or my parents do I can get treatment.
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