what you said about everyone having a circle of friends.... i've said that so many times before. about middle school. and then about highschool. and it hasn't proven to be true. my general sense is that when you feel like you're on the outside, thats all that you see. you're 22. people are changing jobs and just finishing school. they're moving for a job, or to be with a significant other. there are lots of people your age that would really like a new friend. what activities do you enjoy, or would be willing to try? the best way to make friends is to go out and do things. and don't wait for the "perfect" opportunity either; if you wait for perfect, you'll never actually do anything. go for "good enough" and then in a while when you're looking back you might see how perfect it really was.
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