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The One Who · 14-12-2011, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Pi.R^2

I'm curious now!

And Claire, I would say that you have 1 sibling? Although not to be morbid, I would say it depends on when he died (like, if he died at birth or soon after I wouldn't 'count' it). Oh dear God, this is sounding rather insensitive, I'll shut up now.

See, therein lies the problem! He was 21, I was 18. So, I have the choice of saying yes, and then getting the awkward questions of "what does he, how old is he, etc" or saying no and having to be careful of talking about childhood. My main problem is the stage in a conversation/relationship that this question is asked. It's a bit early to launch head first into my emoing woefest.

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14-12-2011, 01:36 PM	#37
The One Who Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Somewhere I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Pi.R^2 I'm curious now! And Claire, I would say that you have 1 sibling? Although not to be morbid, I would say it depends on when he died (like, if he died at birth or soon after I wouldn't 'count' it). Oh dear God, this is sounding rather insensitive, I'll shut up now. See, therein lies the problem! He was 21, I was 18. So, I have the choice of saying yes, and then getting the awkward questions of "what does he, how old is he, etc" or saying no and having to be careful of talking about childhood. My main problem is the stage in a conversation/relationship that this question is asked. It's a bit early to launch head first into my emoing woefest. DILEMMA