According to England & Wales Law, no.
Rape
<dl><dd>(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—</dd></dl> <dl><dd> <dl><dd>(a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,</dd></dl> </dd></dl> <dl><dd> <dl><dd>(b) B does not consent to the penetration, and</dd></dl> </dd></dl> <dl><dd> <dl><dd>(c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.</dd></dl> </dd></dl>
And, for Scotland.
Rape
<dl><dd>(1) If a person (“A”), with A's penis—</dd><dd>(a) without another person (“B”) consenting, and</dd><dd>(b) without any reasonable belief that B consents,</dd></dl> penetrates to any extent, either intending to do so or reckless as to whether there is penetration, the vagina, anus or mouth of B then A commits an offence, to be known as the offence of rape.
Women can only be guilty of sexual assault and other similar offences which carry a lesser penalty than rape. I don't know how this is in other countries, but I think this is rather outdated. What about you?