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0121-Dave. · 31-10-2011, 08:27 PM

Dont worry yourself over this.
I went through exactly the same with so called friends I had during my schooldays, & one chap from my schooldays up untill 5 years ago who I thought was my friend turned out to be there only when it suited him & if I asked a favour in return he would give his excuses & in company he'd basically try & make a fool out of me, but the last straw came when he gave my mrs a peck on the cheek- I saw this as deliberate action to undemine my self confidence & boost his feeling of power over me/others.
That was 5 years ago & I've not seen or spoken to him since.

I still dont have many what I'd describe as real friends, but those I do have my best interests & I can rely on them when needs be.

So bide your time & make new friends, genuine friendship happens naturally, so dont try to rush the issue & have confidence with the fact that you deserve better than the so called friends you have at the moment who make you feel an outcast.

31-10-2011, 08:27 PM	#4
0121-Dave. Dave Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Birmingham UK I am currently:	Dont worry yourself over this. I went through exactly the same with so called friends I had during my schooldays, & one chap from my schooldays up untill 5 years ago who I thought was my friend turned out to be there only when it suited him & if I asked a favour in return he would give his excuses & in company he'd basically try & make a fool out of me, but the last straw came when he gave my mrs a peck on the cheek- I saw this as deliberate action to undemine my self confidence & boost his feeling of power over me/others. That was 5 years ago & I've not seen or spoken to him since. I still dont have many what I'd describe as real friends, but those I do have my best interests & I can rely on them when needs be. So bide your time & make new friends, genuine friendship happens naturally, so dont try to rush the issue & have confidence with the fact that you deserve better than the so called friends you have at the moment who make you feel an outcast.
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