You won't cause harm to her, if you're both ready it should be fine (unless you're extroadinarily large down there *giggles*)... the most that should happen is you'll break the hymen - which is a perfectly natural thing to happen anyway.
I doubt you broke the hymen with your fingers, that'd be quite difficult, but it's a possibility.
If she's not relaxed enough, chances are she's tense and scared. You just need to assure her that it's all okay, though obviously she could just be really scared because it'd be her first time. After that barrier's crossed, it might be easier.
I don't know how you can stop worrying.. Talk to her about it? Uhm.. Just try and relax and stay calm about it all.
Take care and good luck with the relationship and that.
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Last edited by Accidentally Abstract : 04-06-2007 at 04:07 PM.
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