I'm sorry to hear you self harmed. I would be hurt as well if someone said that to me, but please don't let someone elses stupid comment become your downfall.
Maybe you can write to the staff member, or another when you have had time to calm and reflect and work out what triggered the self harming and also express to the member of staff who upset you how hurtful it was and let them know you found it unnecessary to say something so inflammatory when you were clearly struggling.
I hope you get a good nights sleep, tomorrow is a new day. Remember the reasons YOU are there and try to put everyone else asides from that. This time is for you to make the best of and fight your issues head on.
Keep going, we're right behind you :)
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