I think that it's good to wait and come to terms with it if that's what you need.
Think of it this way, during sex a woman is extremely vulnerable, more vulnerable than she ever could be. And if you've not been having sex for long then you'll feel even more vulnerable.
Am I right in thinking you're a Christian?
I'm not anti-religious but I think the man-made pressures put on people by Biblical laws cause unnecessary anxiety.
You need to do what is right for you. By having sex outside of marriage you do not need to fear hell or God by acting on perfectly natural and human impulses.
As long as you look after yourself and respect yourself, God will love and cherish you for taking care of his precious gift - you.
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