Hating yourself fuels the problem. It can SEEM like a virtue in that it signifies some opposition to a flaw, problem, habit etc but in reality its the ego getting all judgemental and that creates more guilt and conflict, that breeds more of a need for coping crutches etc. The fact you resent some issues shows they don't really reflect who your - however your resentment of these false things is what keep you glued to them. See, the problems, feel the hurt - but drop the resentment. Resentment is a hypnotic emotion.
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