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keladry · 29-08-2011, 07:33 AM

First of all, it isn't wasn't couldn't be your fault. And we all wish we could decide to get over it and instantly be over it, doesn't work that way though : /

So this thread has some tips for dealing with flashbacks, it can help, I know I was skeptical at first, just keep trying things, you will find something that helps (and even if it only helps a little, that's not nothing, right?)

http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...flashback+help

I'm sorry your mother is not responding in a way you would like her to/a helpful way. Is there someone else you could talk to, like an aunt maybe, youth minister (I only mention that because that's a resource I utilized even though I didn't go to that church because my own mom... anyway), a teacher.

Also: you deserve love, respect and loooots of cuddles. You can turn down the cuddles, the rest are non-negotiable.

29-08-2011, 07:33 AM	#2
keladry Join Date: Jan 2009 I am currently:	First of all, it isn't wasn't couldn't be your fault. And we all wish we could decide to get over it and instantly be over it, doesn't work that way though : / So this thread has some tips for dealing with flashbacks, it can help, I know I was skeptical at first, just keep trying things, you will find something that helps (and even if it only helps a little, that's not nothing, right?) http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...flashback+help I'm sorry your mother is not responding in a way you would like her to/a helpful way. Is there someone else you could talk to, like an aunt maybe, youth minister (I only mention that because that's a resource I utilized even though I didn't go to that church because my own mom... anyway), a teacher. Also: you deserve love, respect and loooots of cuddles. You can turn down the cuddles, the rest are non-negotiable.
keladry Join Date: Jan 2009 I am currently:	"Courage is not the towering oak that sees storms come and go; it is the fragile blossom that opens in the snow" -Alice Mackenzie Swaim Well she tries to believe it That she's been given new life But she can't shake the feeling That it's not true tonight -You are More, Tenth Avenue North louloubear ( is in here somewhere )