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Coming out to my brother.
Hello all,
So I've 'come out' to a handful of friends, and my mother, as liking girls. All the reactions have been ace so far, which is really affirming. It's helping me really get in touch with who I actually am, instead of lying to myself and others or hiding myself away, and it's nice to be able to be honest.
However, my brother does not know. I really want to tell him as he is probably the most important person in my life. And furthermore I'm worried he'll find out from someone else and not me.
But I don't know how to approach it. I've only ever told one male aaand it didn't go down wonders. He's 22 and I'm just not sure what to say, how to say it, when to say it. It makes me so nervous I've not been really good at telling anyone, it usually just blurts out and then I get embarrassed.
I feel now would be a good time as I'm starting to get on dating sites so I'm really letting myself be me, and it's so exciting!
If anyone has any advice or anything, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks xx
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