being a bpd sufferer myself i know how exciting it is being in a new relationship and being completely head over heels about them... to the point you'd do anything theysay for them... i'm in my 3rd proper relationship in 7 years... i seem to somehow manage to keep holding on to them...apart from this relationship, i cheated in the others with exes, after about a year of being with them i start to hate them, yet still let them control me and try to change me.. thats how i know this one is healthy, i haven't cheated, been changed or feel hate towards my partner...
i think being a bpd sufferer makes us prone to doing things to soon, or being pushed into things or being controlled... i think it changes when you start to look at yourself as a human being rather than worthless or useless... i'm not saying we are all like this, but these periods of feeling completely empty and worthless doesn't help us help ourselves...
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