It does sound like you rushed things by getting engaged on the first date (it takes most people months and years before they get to that point) but then you say you met him online? Did you have an online relationship if so and if it was pretty intense then maybe it wasn't that unstable or rushed and thus less borderline if that makes sense?
E.g. I have an ex who I was friends with prior to going out with them and thus our relationship moved pretty quickly but we had done all the getting to know each other bits when we were friends.
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