Originally Posted by
insidemyhead
This, he could be obsessive but it more sounds like control and deliberate degradation. It's not healthy fir you and this could progress to something more hurtful *hugs* please take care of yourself these words aren't meant to hurt just exprssing an outsiders opinion xx
I totally agree. I have read stories in women's magazines where the man start "controlling" the woman in little ways, such as way you dress. It gradually gets worse, the woman has no friends or family (because he has cut them off from her), and he starts beating her. She becomes an domestic abuse victim, and ends up either dead or in jail from trying to protect herself against him (as she is seen as the criminal, not him).
I dont want that to happen to you, so I would suggest you leave him if you are already living with him. If you arent, please dump him. The chances are that he will say he will change: men who are controlling/abusive never do. So please dont fall for that!