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Old 06-05-2011, 02:43 PM   #36
Left Phalange
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I agree it seems to be filled with attention-seeking drama queens who seem to revel in causing arguments and tension amongst chat members. So instead of closing chat, send logs in about the people who are causing the arguments and hopefully we can get rid of those who cause drama as opposed to getting rid of Chat altogether.

I have also suggested to other members when someone starts 'playing up', instead of rising to it, leave Chat or the room for ten minutes, because if everyone did this, King/Queen of Drama would soon get the hint that their antics would not receive the attention they usually seem to want. I say usually because I know this is not the same for everyone, however if someone needed support but started acting out instead then blaming it on being 'triggered' or whatever, members going into another room or leaving Chat when it starts up may cause them to realise if they'd like support, they should ask for it the conventional, calm way and stop, well, being a dick about it.

I apologise if this doesn't make sense, I am very tired :P Basically if someone starts drama, if you feel like arguing back, leave. Or just leave anyways. They'll get the hint. Hopefully. (I understand this is the same as disciplining a child - reward/punishment etc. etc. - however, people who cause drama tend to be acting ridiculously childish anyways, so why not?)





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