personaly, i would only tell if i felt that the person was a danger to him/herself. this is a very personal matter for everyone who si's and it should be up to each individual who knows (unless they have said that they do not care). now while privately i may do an immense amount of poking and prodding, i would not tell someone else's secrete unless keeping it could do them serious harm. if their si was getting to the point where it was possibly life threatening then i would not hesitate telling someone else. even if they hate me, they would be alive to do so.
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