Originally Posted by
14MillionMiles
Haven't we all got more to be worrying about? Aren't we all in pain one way or another?
Na, I'm just here for the funnies.
Originally Posted by
Dreaming.
Say somebody comes on to the forum, sees some photos of a couple kissing, considers posting a photo of themselves kissing, then reads this thread and sees people saying that some members find those photos triggering. Crisis averted, non? Personally, I feel that this thread serves a very good purpose in discussing what people do and don't find upsetting or not-appropriate-for-this-forum. There are no direct mentions and no specific incidents that have been described. It's a general discussion sparked by recent events (as many discussions are) about people's feelings towards that genre of picture.
Now come on Jo, remember, not everyone comes into this forum & there are a select few that frequent it, but some just come here to defend their internet buddies.
I think I need to raise my point which has been ignored & I feel it's perfectly valid.
A few years ago a member posted a picture of her & her new partner, a few outraged at the fact that the ex was on this site said a few choice replies & the member then took the photo down.
There are many people on this site that get into relationships, we are supposedly all vulnerable, is it really fair to start flaunting these new relationships around? I had a relationship with someone on this site, & at one point had I seen photographic evidence of them necking I would have been angry, because I wouldn't do it to them.
Surely that is a form of bullying, to go around flaunting a new relationship in the face of an ex? There are many people on this site who have had multiple partners through this site & surely, thats got to be hard, worse than seeing them in the street, you go to somewhere for support & bam, there's the thing thats hurting you.