my mums abused me since 5 in many ways and has hurt me beyond anything no matter how ive called out for someone to be on my side only one person in 15 years believed me and even though the evidence was there its not bad parenting its because im mentally ill and disturbed. No-ones challenged my mum ive been blamed for her doings and people dont belive what i say. So im left alone now and i cant even tell people about my mum because there is no point. She is so good at acting all the time people just feel sorry for her shell go 'oh im such a bad parent' me silently thinking yes you are as you disown and deliberatley hurt and torment your own flesh and blood they'll go 'no you're not' thinking good god i wouldnt be able to live with her daughter how hard that must be.
I dont know if this is relevant id just thought id say i agree but only that people tell people they're good parents when theyve done real wrong. Even social services when children are forced into care from abuse and neglect and whatever else.. when the social workers visit the parents after they cant even tell them they're bad parents due to the threat of being taken to court etc... (i read books on such things) i agree with you i mean fair enough when a parent thinks they're bad but just are having a crisis of confidence its ok but i dont like it when someone is actually bad and people contradict them when they should be told the truth otherwise how can they improve or learn from their doings?
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