[Isoverity]

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Originally Posted by Buttons.

Jack she already realises that this wasn't the best plan. I realise this wasn't the best plan. But berating someone about that who is already beating themselves up isn't in my opinion constructive. I think what happened was lesson enough, for both myself and JodiE. And as previously said time and time again, regardless of the situation, No Means No. No consent=Rape, Rape=one of the most terrible and both emotionally and physically violating things one human being can do to another. Regretting him coming up to the room is not going to change the fact that in the here and now JodiE is trying to work through a traumatic event.

Wha..? I didn't berate anyone. Jodi posted "Why me..Why? What did do? What is it about me? ". Since she said her friends didn't get in any troubles it sounded as if she thought something was wrong with her. So I answered her question and I saw the situation as more due to naivete and vulnerability than any deep psychic reason. I didn't say no doesn't mean no and I didn't excuse rape. I know rape is terrible and because of that I know to be aware of people and situations. Fair to say If I was there nothing would have happened because I would have been on the look-out - especially since I know what kind of state Ms MeaCulpa has been in the last weeks.