Jodie.. *offers safe hugs*
What he did is in no way your fault, at all. He should have listened to you when you said no, even if you had been doing stuff before hand. No matter what, it's your choice. If you don't want to do stuff that choice should be respected. He's the disgusting one in this, not you. I promise.
What your therapist said is right, but if you don't like looking at it that way, then you don't have to. How it effects you is more important than the label.
And Katy, make sure your looking after yourself too.
Love you Jodie, please be careful.
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