Before you tell him i would gather as much info on the subject as possible. you can then tell him and also give him some supporting information to read. This can back up what you are saying. Re-enforce thsat its not something you have just "made up" and also it puts the onus on him to "try" and understand a little more.
hiding and witholding truths in a relationship will ALWAYS ALWAYS end in disaster. If you keep the secrets you will feel more and more alone and un cared for.
Of course he will probably try to stop you. thqats a natural and normal reaction though. Its actually a healthy one too. what we do is not "normal". Its hard to understand and only those who "do it" can really truely get their heads around it.
Dont hide and dont get in to a cycle of hiding. From my observations on this site when you do hide and cover up it does nothing but make things a whole lot worse!
very best of luck to you.
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