*hugs* there is no time line for getting over abuse, but you can get the tools you need to deal with it. keep up with the counselling, you don't need to do this alone. it's a long and sometimes painful road, but try to find someone who you feel you can really open up to and be honest with. none of what happened was your fault and it's unfair that it should rule your life like it is. but your abuser hasn't won, your still here and fighting.
it will get better hun, don't push yourself. we all know how it feels to be stuck, and it unfortunately will always be a part of your life, but you can learn to deal and be happy, it won't always rule everyday.
don't give up. you've come so far and although you may not see it now i'm sure you've already come a long way into healing.
stay safe sweetie xoxoxoxox
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