[insidemyhead]

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Originally Posted by x_broken_hearted_x

When you get the same members post about the same things in different threads it can be frustrating to others.

If we give the same advice over and over to the same person it gets frustrating when they don`t take heed to what advice is being given.
When you get the same members make up excuses for everything, why they cant do this, they cant do that etc etc... it becomes frustrating.

Ive noticed a few threads where people have been negative to a member, including myself, but if they make excuses for everything, don`t listen to any sort of advice, and keep making the same threads over and over again about the same thing then of course people are going to get annoyed and this seems to be happening a lot here recently.

Sometimes people just have to be harsh to be kind for a member to actually listen

Oh yes i totally agree, empathise and understand everything you just said i have had personal experience with a lot of that and i get that way with them. Its more when someone isnt excessive poster and whatnot its just that they get attitude randomly and for no reason... thats when i dont really get it. Im one of the people who checks someones profile and how often they write such things before acting.. (i know that sounds creepy... its not meant in such a way) maybe that can be an action?? i dont know..