What do you want to achieve by not attending appointments, or not answering your phone. It sounds as though you want them to prove they are paying attention by somehow reacting to your lack of contact.
Do you want them to knock on your door to check you are okay, as proof that they are doing their job, or caring?
I can't help but read this as a challenge to them.
Are there no other people you could ask to see instead, if you feel you do not get on with the current ones?
Roiben x
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