This has nothing to do with your BPD love. It's bisexuality and curiosity stuff kicking in. You're married, and I'm sure you want to stay with your husband so please do so. You should agree with him whether or not to start something with that girl if you both really want to and are okay with the situation. If not, you'll have to get over the fact that not everything can settle itself & get over the girl like 'normal' people have to do, too.
Good luck.
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