Originally Posted by
control freak
You cant self diagnose BPD. You cant be objective. You need to see a psychiatrist and have an assessment.
Although I have BPD and I never experienced abuse. Also, two people with BPD can experience totally different combinations of symptoms.
^^ I agree, only a professional will be able to diagnose you. And the same goes for the second line, one person with BPD may have really bad abandonment/attachment issues, whilst another may suffer from bad delusions but may be able to maintain good relationships with other people.