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Margo · 24-12-2010, 07:23 PM

i dont know why you keep doing this, but there is a huge amount of insecurity here and you need to get to the bottom of this. I think it shows tremendous courage to have written what you have. It cant have been easy.

I understand the need to be loved and i believe you are cpable of and do love her, however i am worried that your mental state is not right for a relationship now.

I think you need to delve deep and perhaps get some help on this. Going down the path you are on is not fair on either of you. There seems high risk of both mental and physical abuse and that is something that shouldnt be allowed to continue.

Take the time apart to reflect. If you love her you will do the right thing. Take time to talk and then choose whats right.

24-12-2010, 07:23 PM	#2
Margo Join Date: Feb 2006 I am currently:	i dont know why you keep doing this, but there is a huge amount of insecurity here and you need to get to the bottom of this. I think it shows tremendous courage to have written what you have. It cant have been easy. I understand the need to be loved and i believe you are cpable of and do love her, however i am worried that your mental state is not right for a relationship now. I think you need to delve deep and perhaps get some help on this. Going down the path you are on is not fair on either of you. There seems high risk of both mental and physical abuse and that is something that shouldnt be allowed to continue. Take the time apart to reflect. If you love her you will do the right thing. Take time to talk and then choose whats right.
Margo Join Date: Feb 2006 I am currently:	~Phoenix~ is my Little Sister of Awesomeness and Self-Delusion :P Bitter Angel is my Mitten Animad is my Top Trump All Im Living For - Is my beautiful and special daughter who isnt called Kim but will moan if i dont add her :P