Uh, i'm yet to find a relationship where my partner understood it and didn't think it was because I didn't find them sexually attractive.
I try to make it as clear as possible, but a lot of people can't understand a relationship without sex -shrug-.
When it gets to the point that I have to just do it for the sake of my relationship I always enjoy it and stuff, it's just finding the effort to start in the first place.
Even then, I'm much much more of a giver than taker, but I dunno if that has anything to do with it or not.
I don't have anything constructive to say, just sayin' yeah, it's pretty common.
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