my boyfriend used to be a lot like this, though his stories were mostly fake and used to scare me to manipulate/gain control he admitted later. I broke up with him over it, you can't live with someone who does that. But in his case he realized how much he had lost and changed the problems. But I think that's a rare case, she needs a lot of help mentally and she needs to do that before she gets in a relationship with you. You have to look out for yourself too, and you can't make her happy if she's tearing you down all the time anyway. I'd really suggest making sure she is much more stable before ever considering getting back with her, in my case my boyfriend did have a lot of problems that made him act that way, but all it did was make me deteriorate and never helped him for me to allow him to behave as he did. I had to step back and let him change on his own.
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