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[LittleMonster] · 17-11-2010, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Toxic Rose

Kate sweetie what's happened? Why are you angry? I'm sorry I didn't see this thread before, I haven't been in the ED board for a long while so didn't see any of your threads.

I think you need to discuss with somebody - somebody who knows about your ED, like the counselor - your options. You can hardly carry on with Uni if you still have bad eating habits - it wrecks your energy & you find it hard to concentrate on anything else. I know you don't want to drop out, and if you are still feeling like that perhaps you should try to push for a referral to the ED team there?

Edit: Also you are not 'too fat'. People of any size can have an ED. Take me, for example. I'm overweight & professionals helped me through mine. They believed me =D

xx

Thank you for the reply <3 Basically, I found out my mum and best mate had been talking about me behind my back & about my weight & everything. The thing that angered me is not only that it's behind my back but it's also that my best friend knew how much it angered me when my boyf did it before with my mum & she understood why & told me nobody should talk behind my back - and this is like the 3rd time now. I just wish people would leave me alone ...

Yeah finding it hard to concentrate, always tired, dizzy, hungry & weak.. She doesn't seem to do much at the moment, she just wants to work on self - esteem and I don't see how that's gonna stop any of this. I might try and ask for a referral but I'd feel rude..eh I don't know.

Yeah I understand about anyone can have an ED at any weight, but still they only seeemed to care so much last time when I was emaciated, they just let me keep on losing & then just decided to threaten IP before. It just feels like they sort of half-try to help until you're on death's door & only then is it serious..hmmph I don't know..

17-11-2010, 11:20 PM	#11
[LittleMonster] Kate. Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: UK I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Toxic Rose Kate sweetie what's happened? Why are you angry? I'm sorry I didn't see this thread before, I haven't been in the ED board for a long while so didn't see any of your threads. I think you need to discuss with somebody - somebody who knows about your ED, like the counselor - your options. You can hardly carry on with Uni if you still have bad eating habits - it wrecks your energy & you find it hard to concentrate on anything else. I know you don't want to drop out, and if you are still feeling like that perhaps you should try to push for a referral to the ED team there? Edit: Also you are not 'too fat'. People of any size can have an ED. Take me, for example. I'm overweight & professionals helped me through mine. They believed me =D xx Thank you for the reply <3 Basically, I found out my mum and best mate had been talking about me behind my back & about my weight & everything. The thing that angered me is not only that it's behind my back but it's also that my best friend knew how much it angered me when my boyf did it before with my mum & she understood why & told me nobody should talk behind my back - and this is like the 3rd time now. I just wish people would leave me alone ... Yeah finding it hard to concentrate, always tired, dizzy, hungry & weak.. She doesn't seem to do much at the moment, she just wants to work on self - esteem and I don't see how that's gonna stop any of this. I might try and ask for a referral but I'd feel rude..eh I don't know. Yeah I understand about anyone can have an ED at any weight, but still they only seeemed to care so much last time when I was emaciated, they just let me keep on losing & then just decided to threaten IP before. It just feels like they sort of half-try to help until you're on death's door & only then is it serious..hmmph I don't know..