omg - there's nothing new i can say but am so so relieved to hear other people feel just as i do! :)
i used to get so confused. With me it's older stronger men who have been nice or supportive - i get so attached & feel so safe around them. they're father or big brother figures. once i worked out it was filling that need for comfort i was ok. for a long time it messed with my head cause i'm gay but didn't understand my strong emotional (but not sexual) attachment/attraction so men. i just make sure i control the obsessive side so it never becomes awkward or unhealthy.
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