I'm one of those ppl who hates tlking about my problems constantly, but also...needs to. I only have one friend really, and he's kwl with it and I trust him enough to tell him anyone, and vice versa. We both feel kinda guilty wen one of us tlks about our problems a lot, and neither us like tlking about ourselves. But...we're friends, and we help each other. I'm guessing your friend is happy to help you, and same with you. It might feel kinda bad, but that's how friendship goes. You help each other. Dont be thinking it's better to just stop telling them about your problems. They wanna hear it, I'm sure. So I cant give you any specific advice, but you just gotta try not to let it get to you or stop you frm tlking about things they can help with. It sucks even more to know that someone needs your help but has decided to stop asking for it, than it does to be clingy with someone who's there for you and you for them.
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