Ah cheers guys!
I think I will leave it for a while then, I don't feel right telling him just yet so it probably isn't the right time.
It's taking everything I have to force myself to get close to him to start with, the second I get too close to people I put a wall up, so the odds of me just sitting him down and telling him are quite low, I'm half hoping that when the time comes, he just notices and asks the blunt question.
You're right about honesty ninjapenquin, so I do plan on telling him before it gets too serious.. he deserves to know what he's getting into as much as I deserve to know if he's ok with it.
Failing that I will just have to buy lots of cats :)
Thanks for the advice
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