Okay so maybe you made some mistakes or had a break. That's all in the past. The time is now right for your comeback. "In reality very few decisions are irreversible. When you understand your entire life is not riding on one decision, making choices becomes so much easier."
"Most people's evaluation of what is likely to happen is based on what has happened in the past. It's better to focus on a new idea of what you want your future to be."
Personally I know I'll regret it if I don't get my degree and I need to figure out how to remedy that. Nothing is a failure, it is a point of reference and learning. You can't change the past but you can grieve for what went wrong. That's perfectly natural and healthy as long as you then mmove forward.
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