I agree that you need to take care of yourself first, especially if worry is giving you urges to self-harm.
The bottom line is that your friend is responsible for helping herself, and is the only one who can decide when she's ready.
I would not completely distance myself from a friend like this, because that seems like abandonment, but setting clear and healthy boundaries for both of your sakes might be a good idea.
Do you know for sure she is harming herself again?
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