Well first of all... even if you did happen to give him the idea of cutting him, HE was the one to make the decision to do it... so dont put that responsibility on yourself.. it is not your fault. Second, he is lucky to have you because of the experience that you have. Yo know the ups and downs of cutting. I dont think that you giving him advice or telling him what to do wuld be hypocritical... because if you had the choice you would not be doing this either... and you dont want him to go through what you went through or are going through... so i see it as you protecting him more then anything.
Just remember to listen when he wants to talk, and talk when he wants to listen. That will make you a good friend, like you are already.
Take care hunny
x Kate
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