Originally Posted by
MissAnonymous
Have you looked into student support you could get while your at Uni?
Theres every chance you can build your own support system around you so you dont feel you need to rely on your bf so regularly.
Have you told your uni of your struggles and asked them what support they offer. You will make friends too, and Im sure they will keep you company, and motivate you to keep busy doing fun things.
*offers hugs*
I haven't looked into it nor told the uni, I felt that they would discriminate & my parents think I'm recovered so it really would put everything into chaos, I can't let them know of my struggles & worry them, they would stop me from going.
I know, but I seriously do not enjoy seeing friends at all right now, I just spend the time feeling depressed but pretending to be happy, I hate going out, I hate every day :(
Originally Posted by
[Pixie]
Babe its not selfish he is your boyfriend & you depend on him because he cares for you, its not selfish whatsoever.
But, obviously he is going so you need to work on how to care for yourself on your own. (thats not meant to sound harsh, youknow ilove youu )
You should speak to your mum, she might find some ideas on how to help you.
Is there no way you can not go to uni and just take a year out?
Ive taken two yearts out so far to recover from mine lol.
its normal & your health is more important than anything.
Thanks hun. I know, I'm gonna try and get a hobby I think of some sort.
I can't talk to my mum, but I just spoke to my aunt who suggested I go stay with her for a little while as she lives in London & she's great she knows that I still struggle...
I don't want to take a year out, I've worked too hard & fought through my depression to get these grades
xxx