hi I am newly wed too (since April) but its my second marriage.
my first was abusive.
anyhow my current husband is absolutely wonderful.i couldnt wish for a more compassionate understanding man.
I get scared telling him new things that happen with me.. like when Sadie began SHing or even when SAdie just made herself known.
its never easy to discuss even tho i know i wont be judged.
however, my husband suffers from chronic depression so he is more open minded about mental illnesses and disorders i think.
we do struggle horribly money wise as he is out of work more than he works..he ends up losing jobs every yr about the same time of yr. but i know it is his depression doing it. however i am having trouble working myself know and hoping he will try harder to find something.
anyhow sorry ..i got off topic..
as i said its never easy to discuss..even with your own loving husband.. but well ,like for me, I refuse to ever ever keep secrets of any kind from my husband,
lies and secrets were parts of the problems in my first marriage.
If he truly loves you..he will love ALL of you.. no matter what the problem and he will help you thru it.
Goodluck
Hiding
* been a very difficult day for me- hope i made sense*
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