Depends on which part of me you're asking, which one of my personality states.
To simplify, most of me would rather be loved. And to love.
Love meaning in the widest sense of being understood and respected and accepted and seen.
But the whole defensive business to survive with lack of love... has led to that part of me preferring to be feared, to keep people away and 'protect' myself. "Because love hurts, right?"
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