Maybe add that point in your letter - when you disagree with what someone has said you go along with it. At first, well I still do give my therapist letters, but when I was learning how to communicate with him I would tell him I was angry or hurt by what he said via my letters. Over time it became easier to have a free flowing conversations. One bit of advice, just say whats on your mind! don't try to censor it, thats where i fail a lot of times and then it becomes harder to just talk. remember, your therapist has heard lots of things from different people, its hard being open sometimes but they are open to hearing everything and anything, after all, its about YOU and your feelings and thoughts. I guess because I'm not educated on how animals are treated etc, but why is it a bad thing you bought them from a pet shop? if they had been hurt prior to arriving at their new home with you, surely thats a good thing? I see it as you saved those mice and gave them a better home :)
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