We're having a rough time, but we;ve read through the last 6 or so pages that we'd missed.
We know this mightn't go down too well, but we think you guys need to stop antagonizing different alters. Every alter was created for a reason, because something in the way they behave or the way they think was needed for the system to survive. The most important thing to do is do everything you can to understand why they are being so destructive and communicate to them that they don't need to behave in such damaging ways, not tell them they are bad or unwanted.
If there is a safety risk, maybe you guys could try and employ the creative ability that helped you disconnect to that extent in the first place.
Create a "lock down" space or a bedroom that you can put Onyx in where he/she can't harm or upset anyone, until you've come up with a better plan.
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