I hate this question. So much. It feels completely invasive to me. I am forced to either lie to the person I care about, or tell them about a feeling I don't want them to know I have (at least at the time).
I wish people would be more careful. I mean, there are other ways to show concern other than asking a question like that. I would feel much better if someone just SUGGESTED something, like by maybe saying something along the lines of, "I just want you to know if you're ever not feeling well, I'm there for you. But anyway..."
A statement like that would make me feel like they care, but are not trying to invade into my privacy.
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