it's actually mainly because of this question that i joined today. I just don't know how to answer. It's like sometimes i'm entirely sure if the person asking is doing it to be polite or actually wants to know and is prepared for the real answer. Sometimes I want to say the truth, that i'm struggling, that i've pictured the person asking me this and rehearsed the answer in my head to work up courage and othertines it just makes me annoyed. That they;ve asked the question I want but in the wrong place or wrong time.
Then I feel guilty for being selfish or moody or I feel guilty for lying, or if I tell the truth I feel guilty for making them worried.
Sometimes I wish there was some sort of neon sign that would flash up and tell me whther this is one of those situations were I have to lie or be honest.
For such a simple 3 word question it can be very confusing!
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