Your certianly Not alone with this hun.
I react to it in 2 ways really, also the way i react depends on who is saying it. Like my mum who asked me every night ' are you okay lauren' i just say yes and that does really annoy me as though i know she only wants to help i wouldn't be able to tell her if i was feeling unsafe etc as i feel it would hurt her too much.
Were as when my cousin said it before or my best mate says it ( both know about my problems) sometimes i do just want to spill the beans and tell them that i am feeling unsafe and dont trust myself and all of the so i normally try to tell the truth if i feel it will do more harm then good i tend to keep my mouth shut.
But normally it depends on the person asking the question :)
Just to add, say if i am upset as i have fallen over or something stupid or am bleeding and someone asked that question i normally answer ' Do i bloody look okay!' though that normally comes from me been angry that clearly am not okay and they should see that.
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