I cant decide, I think probably pregnancy though because with the others there is one person to look after, when another child is involved thats two people you need to think about. Also pregnancy and children are for life, no ifs or buts. If it is a mistake pregnancy then I think its the worst, but if my kid (theoretically speaking) wanted a child or in some cases, it made them mature in a way that made it a plus then I couldnt get that worried really.
It depends on the kid and the help around them, like said above a catholic child in a catholic family would probably suffer a lot. But someone that has lots of support from family and friends might find having a child not so bad.
Drink and drugs are a big worry, but I see you didnt put drugs.
Argh, I think I would be pretty worried if anything happened to my kid that made them ill or suffer. Sorry didnt vote.
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