Oh yes, I've been there. My MH problems have been coming between us for the best part of 6 years. It's gotten better recently with a good therapist and adequate meds, but its not over. However, I'm now at a point where I can believe he wants to be with me, and isn't doing it out of fear or pity. And I'm at a point where I'm with him because I want to be, not because I need to be. However, I'm sure if I didn't have him, I wouldn't have survived the last few years- despite all the **** I've gone through, and all the instabilities, he's been the one constant, the one thing I can rely on not to change. So for me, it was much safer to tackle my illness with him than without, but its different for everyone x
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