i bet the issue isn't that he doesn't like. but that he can't stand the person he loves being hurt physically or emotionally, whether they are hurting themselves or being hurt by someone else.
he loves you so much, he hates to see you like this and i'm guessing in a way he feels a bit redundant, there's nothing he can do to make you stop, and at the start you did stop so what's changed? in his mind there's probably lots of unanswered questions and to really understand self harm, i believe you have to have gone through that yourself.
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